http://mindhacks.org/its-valentines-day-now-go-talk-to-your-loved-ones/250/ Tips and Lessons on the Science of Mind Tue, 01 Mar 2011 20:34:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://mindhacks.org/its-valentines-day-now-go-talk-to-your-loved-ones/250/comment-page-1/#comment-24233 Randolph Directo Thu, 14 Feb 2008 18:37:21 +0000 http://www.mindhacks.org/2008/02/14/its-valentines-day-now-go-talk-to-your-loved-ones/#comment-24233 I still remember a quote from english lit. decades ago: "Great Love begins with listening..." I forget who said that, but I still head that saying to this day. By asking the right questions and listening, we learn about the personality dimensions of the other person. And no where is this more important than for a husband to do this for his wife. Of course, this goes both ways, but people change their opinions over the years. A person likes to be heard and feel that rapport. A caring ear to that person shows great love. I still remember a quote from english lit. decades ago: "Great Love begins with listening..." I forget who said that, but I still head that saying to this day. By asking the right questions and listening, we learn about the personality dimensions of the other person. And no where is this more important than for a husband to do this for his wife. Of course, this goes both ways, but people change their opinions over the years. A person likes to be heard and feel that rapport. A caring ear to that person shows great love.

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