How to Get Better Results with the Law of Attraction by Using Jose Silva’s Rules of Programming
Everyone's talking about the Law of Attraction ever since the movie "The Secret" was released to the world. Even Oprah did two shows on the subject in Feb 2007.
But according to Jose Silva, the famous mind researcher and founder of the Silva Method, there are specific "Rules" that help you get better results.
The Most Important Rule is...What You Seek to Manifest, Will Come Faster if You Seek it to Benefit Humanity, instead of for purely self-satisfaction.
Ed Bernd Jr, one of Jose Silva's Friends and Instructors shares this piece with us.
Rather than thinking about what you want and how you will feel when you get something or achieve something, it is far better to think about how the success will correct problems, will relieve suffering, will help someone to achieve their purpose in life and correct more problems and make the world a better place to live.
If you need a new car (not want, but need) then don't think about how you will feel when you get it, how proud you will be, etc. Instead, think about the problem you will solve by having the new car:
Your family will be safer, you will get places on time, you will be able to help other people, etc.
The more people who will benefit, the easier it will be to achieve your goal.
We were not sent here on a 70 year vacation, Mr. Silva told us. We were sent here with a job to do, and that job is to correct problems and to make the world a better place to live... to finish the creation and convert the world into a paradise.
It is not about us and what we want and how we feel. We can have everything we need to do our job, plus more, provided that we are doing our job - provided that we are doing what higher intelligence sent us here to do, and that is to correct problems, relieve suffering, and make the world a better place to live.
So focus on doing that, not on yourself, and you will get much better results.
He included a line at the very end of the conditioning cycles, (read to students while the were in meditation) the most powerful place in the conditioning cycle, that we should:
Strive to take part in constructive and creative activities to make this world a better place to live, so that when we move on we shall have left behind a better world for those who follow.
When I saw Mr. Silva in the office on Monday, I mentioned it to him. "That's a statement of unselfishness, isn't it?" I asked. He didn't answer directly. His eyes lit up and he looked at me and said, "If it weren't for that attitude, we wouldn't have the Silva Method today."
Not everyone wants to accept these ideas, and they certainly have the right to accept or reject anything they choose. But if you look around you can sure find plenty of evidence to support this.
Look at the man they say is the wealthiest man in the world, Bill Gates. I complain a lot about his heavy handed tactics - I don't use Internet Explorer and I don't like the fact that I am still forced to have it on my computer anyway. But I sure can't argue with what Bill Gates is doing with all that money that he made off of all of us. He is not just handing it out to make himself feel good either, he is working very hard to make sure that the money does as much good for as many people as possible.
And the wealthiest investor in the world, Warren Buffet, is joining him, giving his money to help people in desperate need rather than giving it to his own children.
I don't think it is any accident that a couple of people who have that kind of attitude have been so successful in their lives.
Jose Silva wrote:
"The other side will only help me when I am asking for something that is needed to improve conditions on planet earth," Mr. Silva explained.
"Like we said, they are not going to help me if I want another million dollars when I already have a million dollars, when I want a Rolls Royce when I have a Rolls Royce already. That I want a girlfriend when I already have a wife. Some people ask for something like this.
"They are not going to help you. You are on your own. If you make a mistake, you are going to suffer for it, you are on your own. You don’t get help from the other side.
"You only get help from the other side when your intentions are that whatever you are doing is to help improve conditions on the planet for more than yourself, not just yourself.
"If you only consider Me, me, you have to do it on your own. If it is for Us, then you get help, if whatever you do is going to help more than you.
"The more you are going to help, the more help you get for it.
"We always say, ‘Don’t ever ask for more than what you need, but do ask for no less than what you need.’
"So what your needs will be, depends on how big your plans are. That’s what your needs will be."
He went on to explain that "how big your plans are" means "how many people will benefit." The more people who benefit, the better.
My Big Question (from the Editor)
When I first read this, my immediate question was...welll If I'm trying to heal a bad back -- can I do that? Surely that's not benefiting anyone else? But my Silva instructor at the time, answered like this. Of course it is! Remember, with a better back, you could take your kids for walks more often. Spend more time playing sports with your teenage son. Carry stuff for your wife. Of course you can help others more. So when you visualize for a better back - see your wife, teenage kid and son all benefiting too. This accelerates the Law of Attraction!
March 22nd, 2007 at 9:30 pm
Thank you so much for this clarification on the law of attraction. It explains so clearly why it has been so difficult for me to manifest and even to decide what to manifest. I need to really give this some thought to decide how I can apply it to the current challenges in my life. Thank you again.
March 22nd, 2007 at 11:06 pm
I have seen the movie the secret and i like the way they present the law of attraction principle. But when i have read this post, i understand fully what the law of attraction really means. Thanks a lot for this valuable site.
I have heard that there will be a seminar about the movie the secret. The seminar is called the science of getting rich seminar and the teachers are some of the speakers in the movie.
March 22nd, 2007 at 11:43 pm
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March 23rd, 2007 at 1:30 am
The most important wish one can make is that of healing. When you focus on healing a person of pain, doubt, frustration, uncertainty then they reciprocate - like feedback within a harmonic oscillator - and it forms a connection that becomes more powerful over time. The healing is through love which is giant web in this ocean of life. Need Proof?
Experiment: An experiment was done by the Institute of Heart Math and the paper that was written about this was titled: Local and Non local Effects of Coherent Heart Frequencies on Conformational Changes of DNA.
In this experiment, some human placenta DNA (the most pristine form of DNA) was placed in a container from which they could measure changes in the DNA. Twenty-eight vials of DNA were given (one each) to 28 trained researchers. Each researcher had been trained how to generate and FEEL feelings, and they each had strong emotions.
What was discovered was that the DNA CHANGED ITS SHAPE according to the feelings of the researchers:
1. When the researchers FELT gratitude, love and appreciation, the DNA responded by RELAXING and the strands unwound. The length of the DNA became longer.
2. When the researchers FELT anger, fear, frustration, or stress, the DNA responded by TIGHTENING UP. It became shorter and SWITCHED OFF many of our DNA codes!
If you've ever felt "shut down" by negative emotions, now you know why your body was equally shut down too. The shut down of the DNA codes was reversed and the codes were switched back on again when feelings of love, joy, gratitude and appreciation were felt by the researchers.
This experiment was later followed up by testing HIV positive patients. They discovered that feelings of love, gratitude and appreciation created 300,000 TIMES the RESISTANCE they had without those feelings. So here's the answer to what can help you stay well, no matter what dreadful virus or bacteria may be floating around. Stay in feelings of joy, love, gratitude and appreciation!
These emotional changes went beyond the effects of electro-magnetics. Individuals trained in deep love were able to change the shape of their DNA. Gregg Braden says this illustrates a new recognized form of energy that connects all of creation.
This energy appears to be a TIGHTLY WOVEN WEB that connects all matter. Essentially we're able to influence this web of creation through our VIBRATION.
March 23rd, 2007 at 1:37 am
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August 17th, 2007 at 9:21 am
Thank you , great article. I have had great success with the Law of Attraction. After reading this I now realize that we can in our manifestation process touch a lot of lives and that is a wonderful feeling.
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December 15th, 2007 at 7:08 am
Ok. Then why don't we all focus on:
1) Making this space condusive to clear understanding of healthy wants and needs.
2) Directing the general flow of energy in the vicinity of earth to make it naturally tend to bring those with complementary wants and needs within easy reach of one another.
For every girl who wants a boyfriend, there's a boy who wants a girlfriend. For every little boy who wants a cat to play with there's a cat craving attention. For every ant looking for food there is a morsel of food taking up useful space in a landfill.
The trick is for each of these to find one another. It is not a healthy pairing for the boy who wants to play with a cat to find a cat who is terrified of people. And it's annoying when the ant crawls through our kitchen and we have to open up a new landfill. For every need, human or otherwise, there are countless others who would benefit from fulfilling that need. All we need to do is make this space condusive to those with complementary needs to find one another.
But, so too is there the problem of thinking we want things that are unhealthy for us. It may not be the best choice for a women who wants to be loved to believe that she wants a particular man, when that particular man wants someone to hurt. There are women in this world who want to be hurt. Everyone will be happier and healthier when we can easily discern what is truly best for us, and find it.
Every conscious being within this space would benefit from this. That should make it very easy to do, right?
Let's do it.
December 22nd, 2007 at 12:18 am
To be the best your can be really depends on my service to my extended community as well as my immediate and extended family. Seeing my actions and responses as affecting all with whom I have contact, face to face or via electronic means.
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February 8th, 2008 at 10:46 pm
I am a bit disappointed with all the programs and meditations I have subscribed to and subsequently paid lots of money out to and not achieving the results I desire. I mean if I am willing to pay out $5,000 I could get myself a personal coach who will help guide me. But after paying out over $1,000 and not seeing any results, am I willing to take the risk. It would sure be nice is one of these companies would be able to help to oversee that I am getting the desired results. I read all the materials but nothing so far.
I realize this last statement is negative, however, I am somewhat frustrated with having paid out the money and still stuck in the same situation.